Checkered shirt. Who’s wearing these stuff nowadays?
Uh oh ! But now its a symbol of political power and part of ingenious campaign strategy. The shirt, thanks to Solo Mayor Joko Widodo (Jokowi) has been worn and seen so much in the media. He actually claimed that he has 12 identical shirts. That he wears in the interview, press conference, debate, and just everywhere. You can rarely see him in any...
This is Odie, a fat hamster of mine. I dont know how old he is but, well, he sure is fat. He likes to sleep, with his chin stuck between the cage bars. I often saw him sleeping showing his belly, while chewing nothing (dreaming, perhaps), and you can really see he only has 4 teeth. :p He always notice my scent whenever im near his cage. He would be awake, and sometimes has trouble in waking up. Yes he is...
A PERSONAL WORD
I n chapter 2, I warned the reader that “understanding the five love languages and learning to speak the primary love language of your spouse may radically affect his or her behavior.” Now I ask, “What do you think?” Having read these pages, walked in and out of the lives of several couples, visited small villages and large cities, sat with me in the counseling office, and talked...
D oes the concept of love languages apply to children? I am often asked that question by those attending my marriage seminars. My unqualified answer is yes. When children are little, you don’t know their primary love language. Therefore, pour on all five and you are bound to hit it; but if you observe their behavior, you can learn their primary love language rather early.
Bobby is six years old. When...
I t was a beautiful September Saturday. My wife and I were strolling through Reynolda Gardens, enjoying the flora, some of which had been imported from around the world.
The gardens had original y been developed by R. J.
Reynolds, the tobacco magnate, as a part of his country estate. They are now a part of the Wake Forest University campus. We had just passed the rose garden when I noticed Ann, a...
L ove is not our only emotional need. Psychologists have observed that among our basic needs are the need for security, self-worth, and significance. Love, however, interfaces with all of those.
If I feel loved by my spouse, I can relax, knowing that my lover will do me no ill . I feel secure in his/her presence. I may face many uncertainties in my vocation. I may have enemies in other areas of my life,...
H ow can we speak each other’s love language when we are full of hurt, anger, and resentment over past failures?
The answer to that question lies in the essential nature of our humanity. We are creatures of choice. That means that we have the capacity to make poor choices, which all of us have done. We have spoken critical words, and we have done hurtful things. We are not proud of those choices,...